Fire up your foreplay

35. Don’t be too gentle when you’re giving him a helping hand. Although you must never bend an erect penis (it can break), you do need to apply a fair amount of force when masturbating him - particularly when he’s about to come. If you’re still in doubt, try masturbating in front of each other - you’ll both be turned on and will get to see how it’s done.

36. Men do love the sensation of their penis deep inside your throat. Why? Because there are so many more nerve endings at the penis tip and, when it rubs on the back of your throat, it feels great. So, to get more of him inside you, try doing it with him standing and you kneeling so your chin is raised, elongating your throat.

37. If deep throat makes you gag, just use your hands. Use your lips to move up and down his shaft and form an ‘okay’ sign with your fingers, following your lips’ movement. This is the surest route to a mind-blowing orgasm for him.

38. Licking his penis like a lollipop is fine for foreplay but, if you’re trying to get him to orgasm, he needs some friction. Form your lips in a tight ‘O’ shape (covering your teeth), so that as you move up and down his shaft the foreskin moves too, and make an effort to stimulate the head of his penis with the flat of your tongue as you come up. Get this trick right and he’ll be more than happy to give you the tongue tickling you deserve too.

39. Don’t get stuck on sucking him - there’s nothing worse for a man than if a woman is ‘working’ too hard when giving fellatio. Relax, try to enjoy it, explore his penis with your tongue, lips and hands - don’t head-bob for hours on end in the hope that he’ll come soon. He’ll come a lot quicker if it feels like you’re enjoying it.

40. Sing to him while you give him oral pleasure. The lower the notes the more vibrations he’ll feel and, believe us, he won’t care if you’re in tune or not - it’ll feel great.

41. Explore his nether regions more fully. Many men don’t even realise how pleasurable anal stimulation can be until some adventurous explorer shows them how. Use loads of lubricant (you can’t have too much) and place your finger over his anus, initially stimulating it without penetrating. Once he’s comfortable you can edge your finger in slowly, and when it’s in an inch or so in, wiggle your finger in a ‘come hither’ motion. This stimulates his prostate gland, and you’ll be surprised at how much he loves it.

42. Watch porn. A recent poll undertaken by The Mirror newspaper found that women are just as aroused by watching erotic films as men. So get cosy on the sofa and stick on a video - we recommend starting with a film like 9 and a Half Weeks or Emmanuelle.

did we mention part 5 yet?